
Depression – the state of feeling dejected, anxious, and hopeless – is difficult to explain and even more difficult to deal with. It is often confused with “sadness”, but while a sad person still has the capacity to mourn and process pain and the strength to endure, and fight, and move on, depressed people don’t have the energy – and the motivation – to do anything. They feel empty but don’t know what’s causing that emptiness; they feel stuck but don’t know what’s holding them back; they feel anxious but don’t really know why or what about. The only way out is a radical change and a new start.
And a new start is often associated with a move to a new place. But can moving help with depression? Can it really cure the empty feeling and bring a sense of purpose, and confidence, and hope? Maybe not, but it might help with the healing process.
Can moving to a new place help depression?
The answer is simple enough – it depends on the circumstances that are causing the depression. If those circumstances will change with moving to a new place, then relocating might provide a cure. If it is an internal problem, though, a change of location will do little to assuage the depression.
Real depression and anxiety are rarely caused by the city one lives in, but they may be triggered or exacerbated by the situation there:
- There may be too many depressing memories associated with a place;
- The area may not suit one’s physical or psychological needs, comfort level or aesthetic sensibilities;
- The city may not provide the opportunities one needs to grow as a person and achieve their dreams and goals in life;
- There may be people or circumstances in one’s current location that raise the person’s anxiety and cause fear, frustration, or other negative emotions, etc.
All these issues can be fixed by moving to a new place – so relocating will probably help.
In fact, many forms of depression are just symptoms of a need for a change – change of scenery, change of job, change of lifestyle, or change of perspectives. Moving to another city or state will provide this change and will open new horizons to the person, giving them the chance to start over and find happiness.
There are many problems, however, that cannot be resolved by moving away – wherever we go, we still face ourselves, we still care for loved ones, and we still need to reconcile with the world. Most personal issues are not influenced by location, environment, or possibilities – so they can’t be fixed by relocating to another city, or state, or country.
So, is moving good for depression? Yes, it is, as moving offers the chance for a fresh start. Yet, it is not a cure on its own.
Should you move away, then, if you’re feeling depressed? That depends on your situation and your wishes.
Will moving to another state help with depression?
However far you may go, moving as such is unlikely to solve your problems and lift your depression. In fact, it might even worsen it – if you don’t fit into the new city, don’t find a good job, don’t make new friends, etc., this could add to the hopelessness and negativism. Besides, moving to a new state is quite a challenging and stressful process in itself:
- Stepping out of your comfort zone will increase your anxiety and your fears;
- Planning and performing a long-distance move will be difficult, expensive, and emotionally draining;
- You will lose your support network and will miss your family and friends;
- Moving to a place where you know nobody and nobody knows you will result in loneliness and isolation;
- You will have to establish a new routine, get used to a new job, adapt to a new environment, and find your place in a new community.
All these stress factors will increase your mental and emotional burden and deepen your depression.
So, if you’re not sure why you’re depressed (or know exactly why you’re depressed and it has nothing to do with your current area), have no good reasons to move to a certain city, or suffer from emotional distress, then moving probably won’t help. The new environment may provide temporary distraction, but it won’t provide a permanent solution and there will be no long-term positive result. You can’t run away from yourself.
So, if a person moves from one place to another because they’re unhappy and hope that a change of location will make them feel better, then no, moving to a new city won’t help. Changing environmental stress factors, though, can alleviate depression under most other circumstances.
When does moving to another city help depression?
There is no magical place where everything is perfect and happiness is guaranteed. Yet, sometimes, an area can be toxic for someone and in such cases, moving to a new place can be really helpful.
If it is your physical surroundings (the climate, the closeness to nature, the vibe of the area, etc.), your city’s situation (high cost of living, limited employment options, lack of opportunities, etc.), or your current lifestyle (unsatisfactory job, mundane routine, distance from loved ones, etc.) that makes you unhappy, then moving to another city may the right path for you. But you shouldn’t just move to any city – you need to determine exactly what you want your new area to offer, research your options, and find a place that meets your needs and preferences. Where you move to is crucial for overcoming your depression. (See also: Important factors to consider when deciding where to move)
Bonus tip: If possible, spend a few weeks in the city you consider moving to before making your final decision – so you have the chance to experience life there and see if you really like it and if you can fit in.
So, does moving away help depression? If where you live is a mismatch to your personality, interests, and desires, then yes, moving away will help. Moving to, however – to a place that resonates with you – will help even more.
Moving closer to things you like (the beach, the mountains, a big city, a peaceful countryside, a mild climate) won’t cure your depression in itself, but it will give you the incentive to get out and do things:
- You will be able to do what you love doing – practice favorite hobbies, enjoy favorite pastimes, engage in favorite activities, etc. That will bring back your enjoyment of life and will help you get out of the blues;
- It will be easier to meet people who enjoy the same things as you do and, thus, it will be easier to make friends. That will bring you a sense of connectedness and will help you shake off loneliness and isolation (See also: How to make friends in a new city);
- You will be surrounded by things you like, so your environment will bring you contentment and inner peace. That will help you overcome your anxieties and focus on your goals in life.
Living in a place you love will help you cope with depression and get back to the happy you.
How does moving help with depression?
A move to a new is the perfect opportunity to start over, change the things you don’t like in your life, and get the freedom you’ve always wanted. You can build your future without having the burdens of your old life pulling you down.
Moving to a new city will challenge you out of your comfort zone and will bring out the warrior in you. And when you begin to fight your own battles and manage to achieve what you’re striving for, there will be a sense of satisfaction, accomplishment, pride, and most importantly – happiness. You’ll gain self-confidence and will become stronger, more resilient, and more self-reliant – and will be able to overcome your depression. (See also: What to do when you move to a new city alone)
What’s more, moving to a new area will open new horizons before you, will provide you new opportunities, and will give you new perspectives. If you open up your mind to the new world around you, you will be able to step out of your own restricting shell and grow as a person.
The feeling of anonymity will also help a lot – no one in your new city will know you as a depressed person and treat you as such. You will be able to start with a clean slate – leave bad habits, bad reputation, bad memories, and bad experiences behind – and find your true self. (See also: What are the effects of moving to a new city)
Last but not least, when you move someplace new, everything around you will be new and exciting (new places to explore, new experiences to try, new people to meet), so you will be filled with zeal and curiosity and your passion for life will be reignited.
The new city will renew you and your depression will disappear.
(If you happen to have the opposite problem – depression after moving, be sure to check our expert tips on how to overcome relocation depression.)
Hi, my name is Johnny. I am 56 years old and born in Holland. I moved to the United Kingdom in 2010, to marry a sweet woman, I have met in London while on holiday. We got married in 2011 and our daughter was born in 2012. In the beginning everything was fine and we were very happy, but later on I found out that the working environment in the UK does not really suite me and my happiness started to decrease in intensity by the month, week, day, until I felt it had an influence in my private life as well. Also, even physical issues came up like light pressure in my chest and I had to conclude a depression entered me. In 2018, I moved back to Holland and worked part of the year there and part in the UK. I thought a change of place and work might do good, but I missed my family too much. I really love them but every time I came back to UK, I felt bad inside and I was easily triggered with racist and discriminating incidents and after a few days I felt like I wanted to go back to Holland. My wife and I talked about moving to Holland together and start new life, but considering my age, and our plans to buy a house in Indonesia, my wife’s home country, I feel not really worth it to move and all the troubles and costs for us to move. And besides, when I see how happy my daughter is in the UK at school and her friends, my conscience is too much active and feel with guilt if I want them to move. Now, since 2018 I am struggling with this and I feel it claims a big toll on us. I have been reading, love will concur everything, but is it? What if I go back to UK and live in another city? Other work? New house? Does anybody have experience with this?
i came back here to be with a very old friend~threy had changed, and my presence irritated them and eventually angered them and they made my life here hell~other things would go wrong, daily it seems. I have hurt my back,i am in pain, i want to return london but cant afford it~i am driven to real despair i just couldnt get awwa, partly bacause i couldnrt accept how my friiend has changed~i also have money dsaved so i cant get help with benefits and i cant really affprd london ~with the covid its difficult not to think my life is over~i had angst all my life i knew it could end tthis way~